Subject: What Should I Expect on a Third Date?
Hey everyone!
I’m a 31-year-old female who recently got out of a long, 14-year relationship. I went on a date with a 36-year-old Aussie guy I met online. The first date wasn’t super exciting—it was just a two-hour walk on the beach, and while we chatted a lot, I didn’t feel any butterflies.
Our second date, a week later, was breakfast at a café, which turned into a four-hour conversation where everything flowed really well. We hugged goodbye, and I noticed he lingered and brushed against me a bit.
Since then, he’s been great about texting, making plans, and asking questions. He’s definitely been on my mind this week!
Now, we have a third date coming up in two days—a wine tasting. I’d love to hear your thoughts on what to expect for a third date.
Also, he’s a white Aussie and I’m Indian, and I’ve never dated outside my culture before. I feel a bit nervous since I’m also a bit out of practice after being in a long relationship. Any advice would be appreciated! 🙈💕
It sounds like you’re off to a great start with this guy! Every relationship progresses at its own pace, but generally speaking, by the third date, there are a few common expectations that you might consider:
Increased Comfort and Connection: By the third date, you both may feel more comfortable with each other. The conversation could flow more easily, and you might find yourselves sharing more personal stories and deeper thoughts.
More Intimacy: Whether emotional or physical, there might be a mutual desire to explore a higher level of intimacy. This doesn’t necessarily mean anything overtly physical, but you might feel more comfortable being affectionate or expressing your attraction.
Future Plans: You might find that there’s a natural opportunity to discuss future dates or what you’re both looking for in a relationship. This can help gauge if you’re on the same page.
Getting to Know Each Other’s Lives: This is often the point where you may start discussing more about your daily lives, interests, and values—beyond just fun hobbies or surface-level topics.
Openness to Vulnerability: As you share more about yourselves, this might also be a time where you both start to open up about past experiences, which can deepen your connection.
Remember, every relationship is unique, so it’s perfectly fine to go with the flow and see where things lead. Just be yourself, enjoy the wine tasting, and listen to your instincts! Good luck! 🍷💕