Navigating a Career Dilemma After Relocating for My Partner – Seeking Advice

Hi everyone,

I find myself in a bit of a tough situation and would really appreciate some guidance. My partner just got an incredible job offer from a major tech company in the US, which is fantastic, and I’m genuinely thrilled for him. However, this unexpected development has thrown my career plans into disarray, and I’m feeling quite lost.

I had intended to apply next year for either an undergraduate degree in software engineering or computer science, but now that I’ll be moving to the US, I’m unsure of my options. Are there any accredited programs for these degrees that can be completed online? Can anyone recommend universities that offer such programs? Has anyone else gone down this path? If so, was it a good decision?

I’m feeling overwhelmed and anxious about this situation. I definitely want to continue my education, but leaving my partner isn’t a viable option either. Any advice or insights would be greatly appreciated! Thank you so much! 😊

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  1. Hi there,

    First of all, congratulations to your partner on the job offer! It’s completely understandable to feel stressed and uncertain about your own future plans in this situation, but it sounds like you’re putting a lot of thought into how to move forward.

    Studying online is definitely a viable option! Many universities in the US and around the world offer online degrees in software engineering and computer science. Some reputable universities that have online programs include:

    1. University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign – They offer an online Bachelor’s in Computer Science.
    2. Georgia Institute of Technology – They have a highly regarded online Master’s program in Computer Science, and it’s worth checking if they offer undergraduate options.
    3. University of Southern California (USC) – Offers an online Bachelor’s in Computer Science.
    4. Oregon State University – They provide an online Bachelor’s in Computer Science geared towards working adults.

    In terms of whether it’s worth it, many students have found success with online degrees. Just ensure that the program you choose is accredited and recognized in the industry.

    Beyond just academics, consider looking into local community colleges or tech bootcamps in the area where you’re moving. These often have flexible schedules and can provide you with practical skills and networking opportunities while you decide on your longer-term educational plans.

    Lastly, have open discussions with your partner about how you both can support each other’s career and educational aspirations. It’s crucial to navigate this transition together.

    Remember, it’s okay to feel overwhelmed, but it seems like you’re already thinking of creative solutions. You’ve got this! If you have more specific questions or need help narrowing down options, feel free to ask. 💪😊

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