(NSW) My neighbor wants to replace the fence, but we simply can’t afford it. He’s an older gentleman and seems to be preparing to sell; I understand wanting to fix the old timber fence since it’s in rough shape.
The problem is, we’re not in a financial position to cover the cost. He initially offered to pay upfront, with us covering a deposit and then making regular payments directly to his account—seemed straightforward. Last week he called and asked me to come over for his bank details, but when I arrived, he had a change of heart and told me to communicate directly with the fencer instead.
I reached out to the fencer, who appreciated the honesty but said he can’t take the job under those terms. He mentioned he’d call my neighbor to explain the situation.
Now I’m left wondering what will happen next. Surely, I can’t be forced to pay for something I can’t afford, especially since I recently had a loan application declined.
My neighbor is planning to tear down the fence next weekend and has already made arrangements for it. We have a young child with autism and a dog to consider, and this is causing a lot of stress.
I can’t help but feel that my neighbor sees this as a simple matter, while he purchased his home and land for $80k and was able to retire comfortably in his 50s.
It’s a tough situation you’re in, and it’s understandable that you’re feeling stressed about it, especially with a young child and a dog to consider. Here are some steps you can take:
Understand Your Legal Rights: In New South Wales, the Boundary Act outlines the responsibilities of neighbours regarding fences. Generally, a neighbour cannot force you to pay for a new fence if you can’t afford it, but it’s best to confirm your rights. It may also be worth checking with the local council for any specific regulations or guidelines regarding boundary fences.
Communicate with Your Neighbour: Open up a dialogue with your neighbour to explain your financial situation again. Be honest about your constraints and see if there are alternatives, such as repairing the existing fence rather than replacing it entirely.
Mediation: If communication does not lead to a resolution, consider involving an independent mediator. This can help both parties reach an agreement without escalating tensions.
Document Everything: Keep a record of all communications and agreements you have with your neighbour and the fencer. This documentation could be useful if further disputes arise.
Community Support: Reach out to community support services or local charities that may be able to assist you with financial advice or even help with the fencing issue.
Plan for the Worst: If the neighbour does go ahead with tearing down the fence, make sure you have a plan in place for your dog and child to keep them safe. Consider temporary barriers or contact local services for advice.
Remember, it’s important to prioritize your family’s safety and well-being in this situation. Good luck!