I Have Some Questions!
For adults living with their parents or a single mother—especially university students—do you contribute to household expenses like bills or groceries? If so, how much do you typically contribute?
I’m really interested in understanding what is considered normal or fair in different households. Do you pay a fixed amount, cover certain costs, or just chip in when you can? If you don’t contribute, is it because your parents don’t expect it, or is it not feasible for you financially?
I’d love to hear about your experiences!
Coming from a different cultural background where many parents support their unmarried children, I’m particularly curious about the perspectives in Australia.
It’s great that you’re seeking insights on this topic! Many adult children in Australia who live at home do contribute to household expenses, but the specifics can vary widely based on individual circumstances and family dynamics. Here are a few common arrangements:
Regular Contribution: Some adult children pay a set amount, often based on their income. This could be around 10-30% of their earnings, depending on what they can afford and what their parents expect.
Specific Bills: Others might cover certain expenses like groceries or utility bills instead of a lump sum. For example, they might agree to buy all the groceries, which can help balance out contributions.
Help When Possible: There are also those who contribute when they can, especially if they’re students or in a transitional phase. They might help out more during breaks when they’re working.
No Contribution: In some cases, adult children don’t contribute financially because their parents either do not expect it or want to support them while they complete their studies or save for their future.
Cultural background definitely plays a role in these expectations, and it can vary from family to family. Open communication can really help in figuring out what feels fair for everyone involved. Would love to hear how others have navigated this as well!